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What Not to Do After a Divorce

May 31, 2017 - Relationship Articles
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Divorce shifts the way in which any individual lives their life. Although divorce can certainly lead to a happier future, happiness has to be something you prioritize and work towards. Instead of allowing your divorce to generate a cycle of negative emotions, it is important to prioritize your own happiness and not allow the divorce to consume you.

Remember: divorce does not define you or your future.

In order to rebuild your life, here are some tips on what not do after a divorce.

Don’t:

 

DON’T FEEL SORRY FOR YOURSELF

It’s difficult after a challenging life upheaval such as divorce not to feel sorry for yourself, at least from time to time. It is completely normal and expected for you to feel disappointed or angry with your situation but the key is to let this feeling manifest itself in the early stages of divorce, instead of letting it dwell.

After the first year of divorce, which is usually the most testing, you need to ensure that any negative or bitter emotions you have are put aside. If not, you risk falling into a cycle of negative emotions which will not allow you to move on. No matter who was right or wrong or whatever happened for your marriage to break, acceptance will allow you to find peace within yourself to move on. You need to find happiness in yourself before you start looking for a new relationship, so letting go of any negative emotions you have had is crucial.

What not to do after a divorce

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DON’T FOCUS ON THE PAST

You cannot go back in time to change anything in the past, which is why it is so important not to relive it in your head. This will only cause you further pain and frustration. The more time you spend focusing on the past, the less time you have to think about and plan for the future.

The future is a very exciting place with endless possibilities but you are solely responsible for making sure that you make the very best of it. You may have ambitions that your previous marriage did not allow you to fulfill or places you’ve always wanted to visit. Now is the time to plan for these and make them happen. Prioritizing making your future self happy is absolutely key to maintaining a positive perspective after a divorce.

 

DON’T LET YOURSELF GET INTO FINANCIAL DIFFICULTY

There is no denying that divorce does change anyone’s financial situation. The same cumulative income will now have to be shared across two households and you may find yourself overseeing finances that you were not before. For example, perhaps your partner had always dealt with rent/mortgage and utility bills.

Following a divorce it is key to reassess your finances and see where you can cut down on spending. You may also want to look into selling some of your possessions, either to start afresh in your new life or because you now need to sell on your investments. If you are looking to sell your engagement ring or sell jewelry from your marriage, WP Diamonds is an A+ BBB accredited jewelry buyer with the expertise to give you a competitive price on your preowned jewelry. There are no hidden fees, which means what we offer you is what you get. Either make an appointment to visit one of our US or UK locations or fill out our online form today to get your exclusive offer. The entire selling process can take as little as 2 days.

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